else but the Philippines...
Rhose, by Any Other Name
By Matthew Sutherland
"A good name is rather to be chosen than great riches" --(Proverbs 22:1)
WHEN I arrived in the Philippines from the UK six years ago, one of the first cultural
differences to strike me was names. The subject has provided a continuing source of
amazement and amusement ever since.
The first unusual thing, from an English perspective, is that everyone here has a
nickname. In the staid and boring United Kingdom, we have nicknames in
when we move into adulthood we tend, I am glad to say, to lose them.
The second thing that struck me is that Philippine names for both girls and boys tend to
be what we in the UK would regard as overbearingly cutesyfor anyone over about five.
"Fifty-five-year-olds with names that sound like five-year-olds", as one
colleague put it. Where I come from, a boy with a nickname like Boy Blue or Honey Boy
would be beaten to death at school by pre-adolescent bullies, and never make it to
adulthood. So, probably, would girls with names like Babes, Lovely, Precious, Peachy or
Apples. Yuk, ech ech. Here, however, no one bats an eyelid.
Then I noticed how many people have what I have come to call "door-bell names".
These are nicknames that sound like - well, door-bells. There are millions of them.
Bong, Ding, and Dong are some of the more common. They can be, and frequently are, used in
even more door-bell-like combinations such as Bing-Bong, Ding-Dong, Ting-Ting, and so on.
Even our newly-appointed chief of police has a doorbell name - Ping. None of these
door-bell names exist where I come from, and hence sound unusually amusing to my untutored
foreign ear. Someone once told me that one of the Bings, when asked why he was called
Bing, replied "because my brother is called Bong". Faultless logic. Dong, of
course, is a particularly funny one for me, as where I come from "dong" is a
slang word for... well, perhaps "talong" is the best Tagalog equivalent.
Repeating names was another novelty to me, having never before encountered people with
names like Len-Len, Let-Let,Mai-Mai, or Ning-Ning. The secretary I inherited on my arrival
had an unusual one: Leck-Leck. Such names are then frequently further refined by using the
"squared" symbol, as in Len2 or Mai2. This had me very confused for a while.
Then there is the trend for parents to stick to a theme when naming their children. This
can be as simple as making them all begin with the same letter, as in Jun, Jimmy, Janice,
and Joy. More imaginative parents shoot for more sophisticated forms of assonance or
rhyme, as in Biboy,Boboy, Buboy, Baboy (notice the names get worse the more kids there are
-- best to be born early or you could end up being a Baboy).
Even better, parents can create whole families of, say, desserts (Apple Pie, Cherry Pie,
Honey Pie) or flowers (Rose, Daffodil, Tulip). The main advantage of such combinations is
that they look great painted across your trunk if you're a cab driver.
That's another thing I'd never seen before coming to Manila - taxis with the driver's
kids' names on the trunk.
Another whole eye-opening field for the foreign visitor is the phenomenon of the
"composite" name. This includes names like Jejomar (for Jesus, Joseph and Mary),
and the remarkable Luzviminda (for Luzon, Visayas and Mindanao, believe it or not). That's
a bit like me being called something like "Engscowani" (for England, Scotland,
Wales and Northern Ireland).
Between you and me, I'm glad I'm not.
And how could I forget to mention the fabulous concept of the randomly-inserted letter
'h'. Quite what this device is supposed to achieve, I have not yet figured out, but I
think it is designed to give a touch of class to an otherwise only averagely weird name.
It results in creations like Jhun, Lhenn, Ghemma, and Jhimmy. Or how about Jhun-Jhun
There is also a whole separate field of name games -- those where the parents have
exhibited a creative sense of humor on purpose. I once had my house in London painted by a
Czechoslovakian decorator by the name of Peter Peter. I could never figure out if his
parents had a fantastic sense of humor or no imagination at all -- it had to be one or the
other. But here in the Philippines, wonderful imagination and humor is often applied to
the naming process, particularly, it seems, in the Chinese community. My favourites
include Bach Johann Sebastian; Edgar Allan Pe; Jonathan Livingston Sy; Magic
Chica Go, and my girlfriend's very own sister, Van Go. I am assured these are real people,
although I've only met two of them. I hope they don't mind being mentioned here.
How boring to come from a country like the UK full of people with names like John Smith.
How wonderful to come from a country where imagination and exoticism rule the world of
names. Even the towns here have weird names; my favorite is the
of Sexmoan (ironically close to Olongapo and Angeles).
Where else in the world could that really be true? Where else in the world could the head
of the Church really be called Cardinal Sin? Where else in the world could Angel, Gigi and
Mandy be grown-up men? Where else could you go through adultlife unembarrassed and
unassailed with a name like Mosquito, or Pepper, or Honey Boy?
Where else but the Philippines!
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